One in eight couples (12% of women) have trouble getting pregnant or going through a full term of pregnancy.
Impact:
American Psychiatric Association (APA) Resource Document states that the psychological impact of not being able to conceive is a significant life crisis
This may involve feelings and reactions such as anger, sadness, shame, or guilt
Couples may feel isolated and may find it difficult to be around couples with children
The experience and treatments are stressful and can interfere with work, family, and relationships
The distress and treatment of infertility may cause anxiety and depression
40% of women who experience infertility have depression or anxiety
Anxiety and depression may contribute to infertility
Both men and women experience levels of anxiety and depression during vitro fertilization (IVF) compared to other treatments
Women report a larger amount of psychological distress compared to men
Very few individuals seek therapy or infertility counseling, less than 7% seek care.
Infertility Treatment and Mood:
Medications used to treat infertility affect mood and contribute to depression, anxiety, and irritability
When mood symptoms become severe or not responding to therapy, medications are considered
Medications often are necessary for managing mood, but some can negatively impact fertility
Tips for Coping:
Don’t try to shut off your feelings, you have a right to cry and be angry
Giving your spouse/partner space to feel and cope, even if it is different than you
Voice to spouse/partner how you want to be helped, prioritize your needs
Seeking information can help with the stress of uncertainty
Support groups can help you connect with individuals who are experiencing the same and can be a way in offering support.